In his new book Restoring Childhood, evolutionary psychologist Peter Gray argues that declining childhood independence, excessive adult control, and achievement-driven education – not smartphones or social media – are responsible for the decline in youth mental health. While Gray rightly points to societal shifts that have led to the loss of childhood, including the responsibility parents must own, he misunderstands today’s online environment and how formative it is for children. He suggests that video games and social media are a way to restore childhood autonomy and independence.
In this episode, Kelly considers Gray’s argument through a biblical worldview while contending with the freedom children need and the freedom children can wrongly use to indulge the flesh. If we aren’t careful, autonomy becomes the ultimate goal. And without wisdom, autonomy produces chaos and recklessness.
Articles referenced:
Have We Destroyed Childhood?
What if it’s not the phones?
Penguin Random House: Restoring Childhood
Podcast 215: Are the Benefits of Smartphones for Kids Really Beneficial? (Part 1)
Scripture referenced:
Galatians 5:13
Galatians 5:7
Jeremiah 17:9
Proverbs 4:23
James 1:14-15
1 Corinthians 6:11-12
Proverbs 22:6
Proverbs 9:10
Romans 1:22
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